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My Boy From Mars

My Boy From Mars: The Story Behind the Book

Monte CowingMay 10, 20264 min read

He Was Always Different

From the first time he stepped onto a football field, I could see it. The way he moved, the way he thought the game — it wasn't like anyone else around him.

My son wasn't playing the game. He was solving it.

That's when I started calling him my boy from Mars — not as an insult, not even as a nickname. As a recognition. He saw the world differently. And my job as his father was to protect that gift, not sand it down to fit in.

What the Book Is Really About

My Boy From Mars is about the quiet tension every parent feels: wanting your child to succeed on the world's terms, while also wanting to protect the thing that makes them them.

It's about the mistakes I made. The times I pushed when I should have listened. The times I spoke when I should have sat in silence next to him on the bench.

The Lesson I Keep Learning

Kids don't need perfect parents. They need present ones.

Present on the sidelines. Present at the dinner table. Present in the hard conversations and the quiet ones.

If there's one takeaway from the book, it's this: witness your child. Don't just watch them. See them.

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You can find My Boy From Mars on Amazon. If it moves you, share it with another parent who needs to hear it.

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